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Why You Are Falling in Love With a Person You Can't Have?

There have been too many stories about someone who deeply fall in love with somebody else, but they just aren't meant to be together. As the days go by, he/she can not forget the person he/she loves so much.

Perhaps, that story happened to you. And you may ask yourself: Why we love someone we can't have? Is there something special with him/her that you can never forget him/her? Is he/she better than your current lover?

Actually, there are several scientific reasons for why we love someone we can't have. It is not about soulmate concept. It is not only about the thing that is special about him/her. And, what it is all about?

1. It is tempting
In The Search for Fulfillment Susan Krauss Whitbourne, a psychologist from Massachusetts Amherst University said that if it is easy for you to get what you want, you will not be thankful for that. She gave an example of an animal who is taught to push a button to get a food. It will know that everytime it pushes the button, it will get…